The definition of insanity is hoping to get a different result by doing the same thing over and over again. We can't solve problems by using the same kind of thinking we used when we created them.
The NINJA System™ stands for:
Necessary Intention & Non-Judgmental Awareness.
To overcome an undesirable habit, it is necessary to establish a strong intention to make a change. You then apply nonjudgmental awareness.
Like a flower blossoming naturally, by just noticing, without adding judgments of good or bad, you’ll find that you catch yourself sooner and sooner in the process of expressing the habit. Each time you become aware of a habit that you intend to change, you record it—without judgment.
At first you only notice what you did after it happened. Then you realize it while it’s happening. After that you catch it just as it starts,and you’ll feel out of sync when your actions don’t match your intention.
Eventually you become aware of the impulse that drives the habit, and at some point even the impulse no longer appears.
The habit is gone. Click here for instructions
in mindful awareness practice
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Come back from the future or past,
To what I was just doing last —
That's the way I know how,
To be Pooh here and now!
— From Dr. Joe's book A WALK IN THE WOOD: Meditations on Mindfulness with a Bear Named Pooh
You may have seen a little raffle ticket, on which is printed this profound message:
YOU MUST BE PRESENT TO WIN!
Usually our minds are bouncing around between the past and the future, rarely in the here and now. What does it mean to be truly present—to our own experience and to others with whom we communicate and interact?
Mindfulness is a secular contemplative practice for enhancing an individual's capacity for focus and awareness. It directs one to pay attention with purpose, in the present moment, and non- judgmentally. Mindfulness cultivates the abilities to 1) clearly observe and deeply experience physical sensations, thoughts, and emotions; 2) express genuine self-awareness and authentic empathy; and 3) enjoy life experiences fully, beyond the labels or judgments usually applied to them.
Mindfulness promotes greater personal and interpersonal self-awareness, essential elements of communication, relationship, and productivity. It also increases emotional stability and capacity for empathy, and engenders greater resilience and the ability to handle the challenges of change.
Dr. Parent offers weekly mindfulness classes at the Ojai Valley Inn and Spa Resort.
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